Many moms wonder if they're doing something that will mess up their child's life for good or adversely impact it. In Am I Messing Up My Kids, Lysa TerKeurst helps mothers relax, let go of guilt, and turn to God for support and guidance. Lysa thinks it time to stop blaming parents when a child does something wrong, let kids suffer the consequences of their poor behavior, and let moms experience peace and satisfaction while raising their kids. Paperback. Focus on the Family recommends this resource.